lost and running

One more month to go and it is either make it or break it moment of life! Preparing and discussing can be though with two fairly egoistic heads. However, we would have to give in continually to move ahead with time. At the crucial moment of planning and finalizing, it can either be a victory or either a break for a couple. That is when you will see a true monster that screams. We have gone so far and victory is the only goal in our mind.

Through many arguments, misunderstanding, stubbornness and bad days, we probably have learnt so much of what are call compromise, respect and love. With a little guidelines, we spend pass few months running about like headless chicken. But none the less, with the little mountain we go through, we understand more about the procedure and wedding planning. So here are some tips on ROM.

ROM can be done by first get the marriage registration form from any Jabatan Pendaftaran. Fill in whatever is necessary and get your form to the commission of oath. After that;

1. 1. If both of you are from Selangor (IC address from Selangor), you can register your wedding directly from Putra Jaya or Plaza Masalam (the Beng Hock fall down place). They will take 3 weeks to process before the actual day of signing!

2. 2. If one from Selangor and one from other place like Perak, then you have two options... fast or slow!

- Opt1 Perak fella change the IC address to Selangor address (can be done 24hr from Putra Jaya, others will take 3 weeks). With similar address, it will take three weeks to process your registration form.

- Opt2 No need change IC. Fill in two marriage registration form. Submit to the Jabatan Pendaftaran Perkhawinan. They will take 4 weeks to process your form because they need to send back to Perak. If they lost your form somewhere then you have to wait again..hahahha!

Be sure to do the whole procedure two months ahead before your wedding date before you start running around like us! ROM for normal way will cost us only RM30. The express way which will only take 7days to process will cost you RM120. It you go through Association, then it will depend how much they will charge.

The thing is that we were so lost till we almost missed out our ROM. We almost did not manage to submit the form in time and might probable have to sign ROM after our wedding. But thank God, He provides us many alternative and blessing! We manage to get aunty May and she was able to arrange a wonderful date for us!

With the long Merdeka weekend, we manage to spend our time planning for the songs to play in our wedding. I love music! HAHA! With so little we have, there are so much more to come!